You can choose one of the two ways to go through life. You can choose to embrace people and live in community with an open heart or you can choose to exclude God and people and do life on your own. Living for yourself is a one-way ticket to loneliness, misery, and embitterment. However, when you live with others, you learn to serve and celebrate with a loving heart. Accept people as flawed human beings. Choose to build people up instead of entering into competition and comparison with them. Share your time and resources with others and discipline yourself to pay attention to them.